My horoscope for today said this:
"...Forgive those who have hurt you and forget the pain you endured, because the negative is pain, but the positive is that it made you stronger."
Last night I had a conversation with a dear friend about how I react when people cross/hurt/betray me, I established that the technique I deal with such hurt is
revenge. I never seek the payback or look to hurt them on purpose, it, at all times seems to fall right on my lap and I have been guilty of taking advantage of the situation to make them feel the pain that they made me feel. In my mind I’m teaching them a lesson but looking back at my “eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth” behavior, I hope I went about my damage differently.
I strongly believe that it is better to let karma do it’s job and just walk away, yes as the victim, with my head held up high and no dirt on my hands.
I’m not perfect. Experiences are what shape me and you, good ones and bad ones, more bad ones than good because the bad ones are the ones that make us stronger.