4/26/11

Miss Monet writes...


This is something we’ve been working on for a really long time. Ive always wanted to learn how to use the audio software on my computer in different ways and this has been such an great learning experience for me, so I’m really excited to share this with my blog friends!
My good friend Nebby thought it would be a great idea to start a talk radio show which in turn evolved into recording real conversations between friends. It has probably been the most honest, open and vulnerable thing I’ve ever did in a while, but I can see how this can turn into something very therapeutic not just for the people leading the conversation but for those listening too. In this episode, nebby discusses with Lissa (me!) the stresses of competition between women and invites a special guest with a message for all the ladies.
Clickity click right under or right HERE...I know you wanna ;)
**this conversation contains explicit language, listener discretion is advised**
Enjoy
oxxx

9 comments:

Nita said...

first off. love the Mary J. Blige beats in the background, and I knew me and you had much in common, I could tell by the way you talk. I went 16month w/o having sex. I broke that cycle in Feb...and for what? he wasn't worth it Neb, I caught him sleeping and dating around. if I never fucked him, I'd be 18months strong, we broke it off two weeks ago. Im the same way. I love sex, dont get me wrong, I can wait! to prove a point. make a statement, and to illustrate Im more than that and more worth it than the chick that might fuck after 6 dates or two times kickin it. I have substance, and I know Im hot. trust me. I dont need people to keep tellin me. just cause I choose to wait all the time for sex doesn't mean there is something wrong with me. trust me. theree are men out there who need to appreciate us. who will, and who want to. Im done looking. look at us. we are gorgeous. men would drink our bath water. high quality. good grade men at that. We can have what we want, but on our terms, and no female can ever get me jealous Nebbz. not I. you might be able to fuck her...and look at how pretty or bad she is, but when she lacks substance, content, character and drive for more. Dont look back at me for anything. I have all of that. I take time. I'll agree, and Im not exactly easy, but Im like a state job. Im sooooo worth it once you're in.

P.S. we soooo need to talk one day, our insight is such the same in so many ways

X0X0
Nita

Nasha said...

A lot of females need to listen to this, then maybe something will go off in their heads. I swear this has to be the most real shit I have herd in a while. It makes no sense for females to hate other females because of this and that and they don't even know each other. Todays society is a mockery, we need to get it together.

A. Lewis, Poet and Gentleman said...

It's really good to see young ladies amicably sharing opinions and ideas. This was awesome. I've seen too many young ladies call each other out over guys...and it's wrong. I personally wouldn't allow it. I'd squash it or something, but that's me. Keep having these discussions; maybe you can inspire other young ladies to call each other beautiful and stand together. And coming from a poet, that spoken word piece was EXCEPTIONAL. It needs to promulgated, more women need those words. "I'm not f*cking because no one's worth it" - quote of the week. I'll share this on my facebook page. So much knowledge dropped.

zee said...

love love loveeeed it!
i swear its about time us women get together and start conquring shit! so kudos to you nebby and the wonderful girl who said some spoken word... im definitely elated i chose to read this and im leaving this blog a lot more inspired and proud to be a young woman... thx girls :)) xo

heart&soul said...

Sooo great!!!!!! It's so good to hear this.... I agree with everything. I'm not one to hate on anybody for any reason ESP a man! I do feel confident in myself in my body and I agree 100% that we are treated how we expect to be...I do have my weak moments but hearing you ladies and the spoken word has given me strength today, thank youuuuu !! XO

Anonymous said...

...winning...

Anonymous said...

is this gona be weekly? love it btw:)

giveittome said...

the spoken word was beautiful...but i'm not really feeling cashmere thoughts i kind of expected more i just don't feel like you're saying anything new...i think we've all heard this before...or maybe i'm just used to these convos with my girls. come on nebs we want something risque!!! lol you're still fab tho just my opinion

Anonymous said...

Dope concept/idea...And I relate on so many levels and I'm sure most females do as well...Ya'll bringing our convo's to the fore front...And YES NEBBY I hope we can verse/build one day cuz you on that awareness mind state...

only critique I would say is...Nebby let the other two talk...lol you cut of Monet nuff...lol

Bless Up!