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Obsessive Compulsive Behavior

I’m not referring to the actual medical condition but it’s the best way I can actually describe some people that you and I may come across in our lives. These inhabitants can be anyone from friends, family, co-workers, neighbor or a person hiding behind a computer screen as “anonymous”.

These people, plain and simple are obsessed with you and/or your life. They; of course would by no means acknowledge that because in their mind they just  don’t like you; They don't fuck with you, why? I don’t know…they don’t even know; but if we sat and analyzed the situation, they basically stalk you and are obsessed with you. They check on your every day life, your daily moves and are always up to date with what it is you are doing, you become one of their obsessions.

You might not have even met them but they just have this image of you that they drilled in their mind which they despise or are so drawn to which allows them to behave in such a strange way. We all have emotions and feelings, it used to bug me so much to the point where I would respond to their words and fight back but that’s a waste of mothafukin time because you don’t owe no one anything, the people that love and care about you already know the true you, so to prove something to someone who doesn’t know the real you is so unnecessary. I actually feel bad for them but do I blame em?? Hell nah, I'm pretty much amazing.

9 comments:

Leila said...

You are soooo great!!! I happen to be someone who has never met you but i do love everything you speak about. Keep doing you huni.

Janine said...

Not even acknowledging the foolishness is a wise move because, like you said in this post, THEY don't even know why they hate you. Trying to prove to them that they are wrong about you would be a waste of time because their hatred is irrational. Better to let them expend all that extra energy hating you until they burn themselves out.

Amena Lee said...

I repeat: PREACH!

Nebby said...

Janine, you are the shit. In the most respectable way ever

Reggie said...

WERKKKKK!!!!!!! That was it!

miss sweets said...

This is soooo true....:)

Anonymous said...

i've never met you but hate is the furthest thing i feel for you. you are REAL.

Nebby said...

THANK YOU! I have my venting moments sometimes and it's great that you guys read and relate xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

FraNcis James said...

I read this on a Sunday and all i can say is Amen!