Question: Why is it ok for guys to do certain things but when a girl does the same it's NOT ok?!
I'm not talking about sexing 8 dif. ppl in 7 days (even tho to each his own if you want to get down like that then hey it's your chachi) I'm talking about just the freedom to talk/fuk/go out/chill/be friends with whoever the hell you want sans judgment by others.
ie #1: man she's wack she's friends with her ex best friend's ex
ie #2: pshhh don't talk to her she's a hoe cuz she fuked him AND him.
You get the point, pls don’t be a victim of judgism (yes I made it up)my hypothesis is as long as you respect yourself/your body you should be able to do anything you want WITHOUT being judged for it. I'm the kind of individual who has a motive behind EVERYTHING I do, I can calculate on one hand how many people I know that would on no account judge me no matter what, they love me for me and understand/accept me just the way I is :) it's unfortunate when you observe people chatting about others and you build up your own verdict on them without ever associating with that individual, you tend to just hop on the hate wagon or inherit ppl's beef which is NOT charming…
I seen this occur on many occasions, I was actually placed in a position where I was told to NOT communicate with someone because of A B 3 9 D and XYZ, I took the info in with respect to who it came from and still did what I wanted, I still talked to them and got to know them, to make the long story short, they ended up betraying me JUST LIKE I was warned they were going to and I heard it over and over again "I TOLD YOU!" but you know what, I aint even mad at that for the reason that lessons are learned the tough way so I showed up to class, learned my lesson and graduated with an A+ in the B&CB (Bad and Classy Bitch) program.
In conclusion, don't judge people because you never why they do the things that they do.
Signing off,
Neb
6/7/09
Vent-a-rama
Question: Why is it ok for guys to do certain things but when a girl does the same it's NOT ok?!
I'm not talking about sexing 8 dif. ppl in 7 days (even tho to each his own if you want to get down like that then hey it's your chachi) I'm talking about just the freedom to talk/fuk/go out/chill/be friends with whoever the hell you want sans judgment by others.
ie #1: man she's wack she's friends with her ex best friend's ex
ie #2: pshhh don't talk to her she's a hoe cuz she fuked him AND him.
You get the point, pls don’t be a victim of judgism (yes I made it up)my hypothesis is as long as you respect yourself/your body you should be able to do anything you want WITHOUT being judged for it. I'm the kind of individual who has a motive behind EVERYTHING I do, I can calculate on one hand how many people I know that would on no account judge me no matter what, they love me for me and understand/accept me just the way I is :) it's unfortunate when you observe people chatting about others and you build up your own verdict on them without ever associating with that individual, you tend to just hop on the hate wagon or inherit ppl's beef which is NOT charming…
I seen this occur on many occasions, I was actually placed in a position where I was told to NOT communicate with someone because of A B 3 9 D and XYZ, I took the info in with respect to who it came from and still did what I wanted, I still talked to them and got to know them, to make the long story short, they ended up betraying me JUST LIKE I was warned they were going to and I heard it over and over again "I TOLD YOU!" but you know what, I aint even mad at that for the reason that lessons are learned the tough way so I showed up to class, learned my lesson and graduated with an A+ in the B&CB (Bad and Classy Bitch) program.
In conclusion, don't judge people because you never why they do the things that they do.
Signing off,
Neb
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You no what the funny thing is ...its when your really close friends judge you behind your back and you have to hear it from someone else i mean that is the most hurtfull thing ever if some one i did not no was to judge i mean i would think that they were jealous and they couldn't do it like me but i now no to live life and to not give a f(word about what people have to say about me i love this blog ...thanks
People can be very judgemental, you just need to live your life. You cant let these people's judgments or opinions dictate how you should live YOUR life.
that was a serious vent. i love it
i can dig it . i have the feeling alot. i hate the sterotype/judgement would get if we did the same thing man do. and could probably handle it better
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