12/5/08

Cheater

And it went a little something like this: “That mothafuka!!!! I KNEW he was too good to be true all the winin’ dinin’ shoppin’ and good head was just too unreal” mm hmmmm *I listen* “soooooo what’s the problem thicky” ( i call her that for obvious reasons, HI BOO!) “well i think he’s playing me, i think he’s cheating Neb, i obviously didn't walk in on him thrustin no bitch but i just know, he’s been lying about where he’s at, his phone is steady going off the hook, he looks at it and puts it on silent, it’s went from sweet to sour and it’s really hurting me, i have these weird ass dreams about catching his ass fukin another girl and it just taking a lot out of me ” mmmm hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm *SMH* “soooo what you think?!!?!?!?!?!? I mean, do you know when your boo is flossin without you? what would you do?? you think he’s cheating huh! do you know something?!” “whooooaaa there thicky....hold up just a jiving minute now.” OK, so with her permission of course, i decided to share her story I’m gonna tell you like i told her. Relationships are built on trust. I can only speak on my own experiences when i say before getting serious with ANYONE i demand a friendship first, i scope out the scene and if i want in, i sign up, but then again i’m a tad bit different. i take things super duper slow which might come off as uninterested or just plain rejecting the person, but it’s just how i move. Trust is built during the friendship phase and thats when YOU decide whether it’s something you want to follow through with or you just want to maintain friends with the person. I’m also a strong believer of open relationships, WOMP WOMP whatever some people call me crazy for having such a belief but because i rely on trust and respect i believe that the person I'm involved with respects me enough to share whatever with me, as i do with them. Now back to Thicky, i know EXACTLY how to tell when someone’s cheating on you...YUP i do i do, wanna know how?! YOU JUST KNOW, you don’t have to walk in on him getting busy and you do NOT even have to ask him. YOU JUST KNOW. if you get a feeling inside of you that tells you something is just not right that’s when you get your shit together and dipset. if you feel like he’s cheating, he probably is. if you have to ask whether he’s cheating, he probably is, if you have damn near nightmares about him doing the deed with Chantel from blue hill...guess what...he probably is. Always go with your instinct your inner voice will never lie to you. Most dudes don’t understand why i just dip on them sometimes, it’s because i just lose interest or something just doesn’t seem right and if i like them enough i will explain but if i don’t then what the hey...it is what it is. I should probably put his picture up and put his ass on blast lol naaaah I happen to respect the game, you just gotta play fair. Signing off, Miss i don’t gotta see shit

15 comments:

Janine said...

Co-sign to the fullest. Which is why, aside from the pure entertainment value, I will never understand the popularity of the show 'Cheaters'. If you got to go to Cheaters, you've already seen the writing on the wall...just pack your bags and walk. I am a STRONG believer in intuition. You don't have to see a big pile of shit to know there's a big pile of shit in the room. You can either put it on your plate and eat it, or you can walk away with some dignity. using that whole, "a man will cheat" rap to justify staying with a bastard is played the hell out. Your self respect should be worth more to you than that.

The Definition said...

Church.

renee said...

haha "miss i dont gotta see shit"! damn straight ...that feeling is always true

bri. said...

mhm. it's that woman's intuition. it's never wrong!

Anonymous said...

i agree with you 100%

WOMEN TRUST YOUR INTUITION. We as women have been given the most important and critical tool ever, Our intuiton.

Our intution guides us through life. As corny as it sounds, it does.

If you have a gut feeling something isnt right, then 99.9% of the time it isnt.

Nebby girl I tell all my girlfriends straight up; If you have to snoop through his phone, email, facebook, accounts,ect. then the deed has already been done boo.
IF YOU SEARCH FOR SHIT, YOU WILL FIND IT. It Never fails.

Why even be with a man that you have to snoop through his shit all the time and constantly bug and annoy your friends asking them the question "do you think he's cheating on me??"

Alot of the time men like to play mind games and try to make us feel like we're "trippin" or being insecure. And thats not the case. But you make yourself look insecure and crazy when you dont go with your intuition and leave him the fuck alone.

so yea to sum it up....trust your gut.

Timaaa. said...

LMAO @ "chantel from blue hill! " damn chickenheads. but yes i agree with you . you just KNOW.

misscaine said...

Preach!

Breezi F said...

Neb, ya said it best.
Preach on sister. lol

Nebby said...

*phew*
i'm glad you ladies agree

CeleBritney said...

Just went threw this last week to be exact.

If you feel he doin somethn.. he is! Flat out.

$oulCHK said...

fuuuuuuuuuuuuck.
im goin thru it.

god help me.

Anonymous said...

youre like the hardest girl to hate on lol (not that anyone would have the audacity)

the friendship before relationship is a must, most guys hate that, and that in itself should set off sirens i think... props to you lady

Burna said...

aye women cheat too this goes both ways here

bri. said...

but we're less likely to get caught.
::evil laugh:: lol

hustleGRL said...

Yeah? Well Ima have to come to you for some advice mang. :) Men suck ass.