
And it went a little something like this:
“That mothafuka!!!! I KNEW he was too good to be true all the winin’ dinin’ shoppin’ and good head was just too unreal”
mm hmmmm *I listen*
“soooooo what’s the problem thicky” ( i call her that for obvious reasons, HI BOO!)
“well i think he’s playing me, i think he’s cheating Neb, i obviously didn't walk in on him thrustin no bitch but i just know, he’s been lying about where he’s at, his phone is steady going off the hook, he looks at it and puts it on silent, it’s went from sweet to sour and it’s really hurting me, i have these weird ass dreams about catching his ass fukin another girl and it just taking a lot out of me ”
mmmm hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm *SMH*
“soooo what you think?!!?!?!?!?!? I mean, do you know when your boo is flossin without you? what would you do?? you think he’s cheating huh! do you know something?!”
“whooooaaa there thicky....hold up just a jiving minute now.”
OK, so with her permission of course, i decided to share her story I’m gonna tell you like i told her. Relationships are built on trust. I can only speak on my own experiences when i say before getting serious with ANYONE i demand a friendship first, i scope out the scene and if i want in, i sign up, but then again i’m a tad bit different. i take things super duper slow which might come off as uninterested or just plain rejecting the person, but it’s just how i move. Trust is built during the friendship phase and thats when YOU decide whether it’s something you want to follow through with or you just want to maintain friends with the person. I’m also a strong believer of open relationships, WOMP WOMP whatever some people call me crazy for having such a belief but because i rely on trust and respect i believe that the person I'm involved with respects me enough to share whatever with me, as i do with them.
Now back to Thicky, i know EXACTLY how to tell when someone’s cheating on you...YUP i do i do, wanna know how?! YOU JUST KNOW, you don’t have to walk in on him getting busy and you do NOT even have to ask him. YOU JUST KNOW. if you get a feeling inside of you that tells you something is just not right that’s when you get your shit together and dipset. if you feel like he’s cheating, he probably is. if you have to ask whether he’s cheating, he probably is, if you have damn near nightmares about him doing the deed with Chantel from blue hill...guess what...he probably is. Always go with your instinct your inner voice will never lie to you. Most dudes don’t understand why i just dip on them sometimes, it’s because i just lose interest or something just doesn’t seem right and if i like them enough i will explain but if i don’t then what the hey...it is what it is. I should probably put his picture up and put his ass on blast lol naaaah I happen to respect the game, you just gotta play fair.
Signing off,
Miss i don’t gotta see shit