Boys Vs Men
I laugh about this with my close friends all the time. Boys need to grow the fuck up and know how to act. It's like they need us so bad but they don't know how to go about to satisfy us. I'm not just talking sexually, I'm talking sexually, emotionally, mentally and everything in between. When they "fuck up" you cut them off, they go INSANE. They want to do anything in their power to get you to speak to them again, I'm not sure if it's because they really miss you or just an ego thing. When they fuck up and you take em back over and over again, they get used to getting babied and they of course fuck up again, because guess what? because your lonely ass who doesn't know how much you're worth WILL take them back. As soon as your "bitch please" (as i like to call it) clock goes off and you say you know whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat...I'm done, you make the big move to cut the shit off, all hell breaks loose, but that's not what's funny no no. what's funny is NOW is when you realize the difference between a boy and a man. I'm a strong believer of "people make time for things they want to make time for" theory. A man will do ANYTHING to get you back, he will show you, yes i fucked up, i know i fucked up before, i know you took me back, i know i took advantage of the sito and i proooooomise you that if you take me back this ONE LAST time i will be your everything. A man won't just say this shit. THEY SHOW IT! Example: they will send you flowers, they send you gifts, they wait for you outside your door to just talk to you, they send you emails, texts, hell they even call your sister and beg her for advice. A boy on the other hand... SMH ...he will only do what he "thinks" will work. He might send you a text expressing how sorry he is, hell he might even call you and tell you how much he misses you but *jay z voice* THAT ABOUT IT The point I'm trying to make here is a man will continue trying by using different yet creative techniques ... a boy will use one technique and keep trying it over and over again hoping it would work. A girl will take the boy back. A woman keeps it moving ;) Let that marinate.