9/12/09

Sex W/ The Ex

Miss Natosh Monroe threw some ideas for me to write about and one of them that stuck out the most was Sex with the Ex. Raise your hand if you are guilty! *raises hand* I think it's safe to say that we have ALL been down that road. There is nothing wrong with sex with the ex IF you can seperate your past emotions from the whole deed, but knowing most females, it is hard for us to seperate emotions from the past once you flex with the ex. Everything comes flashing in front of your eyes, he's right in front of you, looking so good, you want to go there cuz you KNOW he knows what to do to make you have goosbumps and make your toes curl, he knows your spots... all of em, he knows how to make you run from that D, in a good way...and afterall you two have had a whole lot of practice; sounds good huh but wait a minute now, as soon as you open that chapter *SMH* good luck getting out. You might cut him off after, delete him from your phone, rename him on your BBM as "chlamidya" so you think it's too nasty to hit him up (or is that just me? lol) but as SOON as you run into him ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh boy oh boy, you can cut the tension with a knife, he makes you a lil uncomfortable in a good way so you can't help but smile. I have been a victim of sexin the ex it's all gravy at the moment but when you lose touch it makes you wish you never have. How do you feel about "Sex with the Ex", yay or nay??

10 comments:

Amena Lee said...

yay all day

lol

Anonymous said...

Yay at the moment then Right after all that TLC its a Nay it just messes with your emotions right aftetwards. Then i start thinking ...his he doin this with his other ex's as well?? Or is he screwing someone else between me.. Then the feeling of wanting them bk but knowing its nt going to happen . One always gets attached after, which is a rollercoaster ride to deal with!

& NAY for sure if the guy cheated on u ... Deserves no love in return, if ur doin the nasty with a cheater.

Anonymous said...

Saying YAY all the time wouldnt the status of you two be "friends with benefits"

Pauleanna said...

Nay to the friends with benefits. But I must admit I have been guilty of sex with the ex a few times before. Sometimes you just can't help the feeling. A past relationship can carry some heavy emotions, the kind of love that keep your panties moist just at the thought of him. Shiiittt! *guilty* But over time I've learned that an ex is an ex for a reason and to just leave him alone.
P.S. Bianca is with me right now and dying over the "change his name to chlamydia" LOLOLOL.
Great piece Neb!

Anonymous said...

NAY NAY NAY NAY! well NAY for me atleast..

I just had sex with my ex TWICE last week. and I REGRET IT!!!

I thought i was over him, and I called myself "acting like the male" trying to use him for sex and not gonna give a fuck after we did it, but the minute it was over, I wanted him back!!! My emotions got all tangled up and shit.

Now im trying my hardest to detox him out of my system....smh....

And to top it off, ive never had sex with any of my ex's except him...it was my first time doing such and thing and i wont be doing it again....

I know we all get a tad bit horny lol but if he is your EX, its for a reason.

Never again will i have sex with the person who isnt my love interest for a reason.


ITS LIKE PLAYING WITH FIRE.

but, some girls can do that and not feel a thing. I cant.

Nebby said...

each of you have a point....for me i guess i can pretend i dont give a shit when it comes to that but feelings are def. there so its best to FALL BACK

Reggie said...

NAH! Find better quick. Otherwise, you get a toy and start respecting you.

Nebby said...

"Otherwise, you get a toy and start respecting you." WELL SAID!

Natosh Monroe said...

Ahhh fak YAY! i have and i fucking regret it..ex's are stupid and exs for a reason...that is all lol..love the blog!

Brea said...

yupp im guilty
its good while it lasts
but afterwards, its like a mothafuckin trap!