1/3/09

Time out!

I decided to take the semester off, i just feel like i have been moving so fast since i moved to Toronto with school work and everything else in between. Some of my close friends don't think that it's such a good idea because they believe in the myth of once you take a semester off it's gonna turn to a year off then to college drop out swagg but no no no I know what I'm doing, I'm a big girl and I really need time off school to just relax. Ones that know me well enough and are well aware of my ADD know that I'm making the right decision because if i'm not 100 percent in it i'm not gonna give 100 percent. I haven't relaxed in so long, I wanna sleep in, travel, visit my fam and friends, go away to my favorite resorts, read books that are not assigned for homework, watch movies, spend more time with my family, take my dogs for a walk and all that good stuff. All the things i have listed might sounds silly and you might be thinking well wat the hell you can still do that without taking time off but no i really cant, i don't have the time to do regular things while being a full time student and working full time. I'm still gonna be working full time but the only reason I'm keeping work in my life is because I love my job and my job loves me, I get to do everything I want and i get paid for it so why put that on hold, i might wanna get a lil lazy but I'm not crazy.

19 comments:

Rea said...

that is a wise decision if you are not going to perform your best and you are not all in whatever it is you chose to do why do it when you are not ready? i'm behind you on your decision and even if you decide that you are not ready after this semester, you should take as much time needed to be all you can be ;)
bless

jae said...

I agree and i am the same way if i am not ready i will not do it. you will know when you wanna get back in there sleep is the best therapy

Anonymous said...

hey nebby do you have an account on vibe.to?
cause i was on vibe today and i saw this girl's profile with pics of you up.. o.O
http://www.vibe.to/vibe/124641

-remedy

Nebby said...

:(
no i don't even know what vibe is *sigh*

shame

Anonymous said...

lol. i knew she was a fake.
lmao you have to check out this forum in which she posted who her ex was.

http://www.vibe.to/thread/49128/17

a shame it is..

-remedy

Nebby said...

LMAO omg....thank you Remedy :)

Anonymous said...

good luck with the time off...

use that time wisely. Time waits for no one. Remember that.

So do all you said you would do. Its okay to live a little. Youve worked hard!

What Women Want said...

Nukkah wtf?? Please go part time at least... Still love u like cooked food though.. and BTW I'm mad at you for having to learn about this ish on your BLOG...

I'm hittin u up on bbm right now

kneesee said...

i finished school for my AA last summer, and i've been out since.. the time away has been great to me and it definitely gives you time and space to relax, teach and learn about things that aren't related in school.. so it puts you in a different perspective. and boy have i learned a whole lot in the past year and a half. lol. i'm so ready to go back to school though. but i support the break! :)

Jai. said...

Damn, sounds like the master plan right here Nebula. lol I am so over school right now! ahhhhhhh! I just want to travel and chill but my family would beat that ass if I even thought of taking time off. lol Im not even taking time off between undergrad and grad school. sigh....

dj_lissamonét said...

good for you nebby...you work hard and you play hard =] but even that doesn't allow for "normal life" time.
i guess now we can finally go for tea.
*hugs*

Anonymous said...

Neb, what do you do for a living anyways? Like work wise? At least you can say you LOVE your job! Not many people can say that.

Anonymous said...

what course and year are you in?

Nebby said...

I work as an EA coordinator for a travel insurance company in Toronto


I'm in school for international business and i have one more semester left

Nebby said...

& thanks for all the feedback ;)

yaaaaaaaaaaaay for the break supporters!

Anonymous said...

Ok so you have one more semester left, which means... you should strive it out girl! Its not that long of a time. But on the other hand, I HEAR YA! I got school, work and a daughter, time flies by so fast i feel like i have no time to even breathe. You know what's right for you, and if you feel you need a break, then you NEED A BREAK. G'ahead and have your kit kat bars mama, just make sure you come back on track to where you left off cause you wanna finish something you started. Do me a favour and have some kit kats for me too, cause the lord knows i need a break! lol

Brey said...

Neb I support your break and I believe you will go back when you ready. btw What is your job exactly? I don't think you ever mentioned it, I may be wrong tho.

KEY -KEY said...

as long as u can pay child support.. dats all dat matters. i cant keep traveling back to canada to take u to court!!!! i really wanna keep maury out of this!!
but i support u BM :)

D said...

I just saw this post (been slackin on my blog reading) however, I am def in support of the break! Its funny too cause I'm doing the same thing. And I've told no one. Cause there will not be support only questions and foolishness. My home girl was like yea when do you start school again..I was like uh.. I dont know. I havent registered for any classes... And I dont intend to..tryin to do some soul searchin and all that good stuff you mentioned...

Neway..yay for breaks! And sleep...