Feeling Down????

It's definitely not the best feeling in the world, but unless you're heartless and cold, it happens to you too.
I find that the people who have huge hearts and fully care about certain things/people are the ones who are effected by this. I'm here to tell you that you are not the only one, to not let that feeling bring you down and that I found a way around it :)
All you have to do is not give a fuck!!!!! Of course it's so much easier said than done but hear me out, life waits for no one. Truth be told, you're wasting your time being angry/hurt/down. Should someone/something have enough power on YOUR life and be able to bring you down??? Hell no!
Try to put the anger and hurt behind you and keep on keeping on.
Eliminate all bad people from your life. Don't waste your time trying to figure out "why" and what the reason is behind certain things. I'm not sure about you but I have 0 time for bullshit, at this point of my life I have come to the conclusion that people will talk regardless, good and bad.
Switch the negative energy to a positive one, be thankful for what you do have, do something that makes you feel good, be around REAL friends, life is truly beautiful and you don't want to miss out, our time is not promised and afterall, we only get one life, so be a good person, be happy and live life to the fullest, you deserve it.
XO
Neb

Sexy Defined.

What's your definition?

p.s. Visit me here every Saturday for more of my thoughts about love, life & everything inbetween! ox

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clASS is in session

GOOD EVENING CLA$$!

In our previous session we had a lecture about The Nan, today we will be discussing the main asset...The Donk.
As you can see on our diagram they all come in different shapes and sizes, they vary in hight, width, color and feel. Some like to be caressed, others punished. Thou shall not judge since everyone has a certain taste.

Now ladies, one by one step up nice and slowly to the podium and point out what you're working with.

People will act the way you allow them to

We have all been wounded by heartbreak, if you haven't don't even inconvenience yourself by reading the rest of this post. For the rest of us, reflect back at that individual you let in your life and how many occasions you were placed in a circumstance where you had to question their character/actions.

When a person is in love they tend to be blinded by a lot of effects. I have had my share of relationships/friendships and I recognize everything that I have been through I allowed, I wouldn't alter a single thing about my past experiences, they were lessons and obstacles I had to go through to find myself and decide what I want from the people I want to allow in my life.

As you grow older that long list you made back in the day about a significant other will minimize down to one thing and one thing only, happiness. It's no longer "sexy, sweet, nice eyes, big lips, etc..." As time goes by you will want to be with somebody that you want to grow with someone who will love you for you, treat you how you deserve to be treated and if you are not getting that get out quick because you will never be able to change someone.

So yes, quit the complaining, whatever situation you are in, you have allowed yourself to be in due to the fact that we have a choice and people will act the way you allow them to.

Kimmy Kakes

I guess Kim posted a pic on her twitter of her new callendar and it's all over the blogs, somethin like a sneek peak. She put it up and said how she's only gonna keep it up for one night (me me me i need attention pronto) lol
I think the picture is great! but its sooooooooooooooo Vida Guera circa 2006, come onnnnnnnn you don't have to do all that Kim. I wanna see some new shit, something different something good something that will gain trend followers.

Signing off,
this is MY opinion

Forgiveness

My horoscope for today said this:

"...Forgive those who have hurt you and forget the pain you endured, because the negative is pain, but the positive is that it made you stronger."

Last night I had a conversation with a dear friend about how I react when  people cross/hurt/betray me, I established that the technique I deal with such hurt is revenge. I never seek the payback or look to hurt them on purpose, it, at all times seems to fall right on my lap and I have been guilty of taking advantage of the situation to make them feel the pain that they made me feel. In my mind I’m teaching them a lesson but looking back at my “eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth” behavior, I hope I went about my damage differently.

I strongly believe that it is better to let karma do it’s job and just walk away, yes as the victim, with my head held up high and no dirt on my hands.

I’m not perfect. Experiences are what shape me and you, good ones and bad ones, more bad ones than good because the bad ones are the ones that make us stronger.

XoXo

A new me

Karma

Karma is a bitch. Not a bad bitch either, you may view it as a sexy bitch that will tease you, once you give in, she'll leave you with a permanent STD.

I say that to say this; most men are careless and even feel unstoppable, they don't think their actions will catch up to them. 

Go on and do what you feel is necessary but just be ready to sign up for that karma payment plan once all is done.

Sincerely,

Zineb

Men Vs Women

“Why do men cheat?” from girlfriends crying on my shoulder to strangers asking me for advice. I let that question preserve and shaped a question from that query.
“Why do girls get heartbroken…when their men cheat?” I’m not sure what your definition is of cheating is, but to me cheating on me is when you are involved in an emotional/mental/intellectual connection/relationship with someone else. I’m not condoning getting physical with other women when you are with me, but I do recognize that some men can’t hold out. They NEED it, and sometime I’m just not around, therefore if Joanne wants to suck my man's dick when I’m a different time zone, she can go ahead and do so.
Before you point a finger and call me crazy you must try to grasp how I grew up. I was exposed to dishonesty/deceit at a very young age, unfortunately it made me strongly accept that the majority of men cheat and like my mother, the majority of women get heartbroken. To be completely honest with you, I’m not sure if I have ever been cheated on.

Have I ever caught a boyfriend cheating on me? No
Have I asked if they have cheated on me? No
Do I want to know? Hell no

I don’t think that cheating is right; I actually think it’s very weak, but I don’t think we have control over it . Don't get me wrong tho, as soon as my womanly instinct kicks me in the gut, I'm out.

Back to the question I got from the original question, why is it that most women destroy to pieces when they are faced with such a misfortune. It’s because the majority of women are emotional, love hard, care and when physically involved with ONE person, all plus more is positioned into that specific relationship, sadly but strongly believing that it’s mutual.

If women moved the same way some men do: have one main, some side pieces/jump offs whose faces are sat on and given the wrong number; would hearts still be broken?

Side note: Seeing Eye for eye and tooth for tooth is not the answer, and this doesn’t apply to women who are married because that’s whole new level of commitment.

With Love,
Zineb

Girl Friends For Life

I have never been the type to BFF girls, not by choice but just the way I grew up. I was raised by a lot of my uncles, and played with my boy cousins, unfortunately that wasn't by choice either, the girl cousins would NEVER let me play with them to the point where I would actually cry and beg them to at least let me sit and watch them play lol. I grew accustomed to the boys that I actually adapted thinking and sadly even behaving like one sometimes, don't get me wrong I still had my female traits because my mama forced me to act like a lady at home.


I noticed as I was growing up that I have developed a pattern where I would be friends with females, a little bit down the road we would just fall out, no explanations, no confrontations and to be honest with you...I could care less, I'm sure if you ask for their side of the story I of course would be at fault, again...I could care less.

As time went by I grew up to man up to my mistakes, apologize when I'm wrong and fight for friendships that mean a lot to me. Look at it this way, if the flow changes between me and you and I don't reach out to know what is going on that would be because I could give 2 shits bitch :) it’s been a pleasure; you can proceed with your "life".

This is no way shape or form low blows to any females I was cool with and are no longer cool with, this just came from the actuality that I’m growing closer and closer to a girl friend of mine. We fight like relatives, she keeps it 200 with me, I’m there for her, and she’s there for me. When I'm in the wrong I’m the first to apologize (few days later give or take lol) and if she's in the wrong, it's the same thing.

I recently said to her that I hate fighting with her and she went on to explain that real friends fight, they make up and become closer, fake friends … don't do that.

Thank you for being you,
xo NEB xo

Hiiiiyyyyy!!!!

(First pic that came up when i googled "bitch is busy")

I have been getting a lot of messages about where the hell i have been, what i have been up to and where the fuk are the sex posts at!? you dirty lil fukers lol well i miss yous too but you know when you're just so occupied with life and you're just on brain vaca? That's been me.


Well first of all I got promoted to a different shift and now i no longer work nights, i work mon-fri 9-5 it's still taking some time to get used to but i'm getting there.


You know what would make things a tad bit smooth for us??!!!!!!!  if you tell me what you want me to talk about, or if you have a question you want my opinion on.. WHATEVER YOU LIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIKE


someone mentioned to do vlogs or tutorials..hmmm...about what tho????
xo
Neb

Talk to me...

Vajazzle your Vajayjay

Until one of em fall out and causes damage of course ...

Nebby votes "NO Thanks" what you think???

Front Row $$$$$$

The don the dutch

Of monopolys ...

Figured andy would like that...

Just wondering...

Whats the most "out there" item you own??? You know...that piece you wear and EVERYONE is like daaaaaaaaaamn where you get that?!?!?

I learned SO MUCH this past year, even tho I feel as if I wasted a valuable amount of time, lessons are not to be rushed. I'm happier than you could EVER imagine right now :) x 1093434321

Merry Christmas

My family and I have been celebrating Christmas since I can remember. The big bright decorated Christmas tree, the shake to guess what it is gifts, the guaranteed to give you itis dinner and just a whole lot of love. It seems as the time went by and *ahem* we got older, we became a tad bit busier, Christmas is just not what it used to be, we don't even make an attempt to buy a tree anymore we're just like meh fuk it and we get each other gifts and even skip the dinner.

Don't get me wrong, the love is there and when we call for one another we are there for each other but holidays are not the same anymore, it really breaks my heart. I don't know maybe it's all the Christmas movies that I have been watching recently that got me feeling jelli of the big ass table with one and all around it and kids asking their parents if they can open at least ONE present before Christmas morning. For some reason it seems to me as Christmas now is just about going out and spending money, getting yourself into debt and it's just being celebrated the wrong way. I don’t mean to sound like a Grinch but I miss my back in the day Christmas memories.

Do you celebrate your Christmas like how I see in the movies????

Creative my ass

I'm all for creativity, being different, steping out of the box, YES allllll of that but some shit is just WTF.
Ok  hello we see that you desperately, itching at the neck wanting to be different but you look like an ass, I personally think that your jacket looks more interesting than that play ground fence on your face so how about we zoom out and focus on that pretty leather of yours. SMH

Want to be different?! show me some shit like THIS!!!! Now THAT is what i'm talking about! that's sexy!!!

xo

Neb

Oh Santa...

I remember so well how disappointed and hurt i was when I found out you were not real. I cried the whole day. I secretly wish someone would convince me now that you are.


xo
Neb

Lil Kim

Dear new females in videos,

The whole puffy hips to make you look like you got curves, leathers, blond hair, weird accessories, short shorts, bra tops, furs, covered in diamond etc.. Lil kim did it first and was looked at sideways for it.
Yes, she might look scary as all hell now but everyone is jockin her (past) fresh ... Just sayin'

xoxo
Neb

I think Kim was BANGIN back in the day, wish she left the knife alone

"Black Face"

This is something that has been getting a lot of attention on the news lately.

White people painting their face/body black on halloween.

I'm not sure how I really feel about this whole thing. I'm not sure if it's being taken as a big deal. I look at it the same way i look at who can use the "N word". Yes, it's halloween dress however the fuk u wanna dress but one thing i do not agree with tho is when a person just puts black shit all over their body hold a racket look NOTHING like serena and say that's what they are supposed to be on halloween, that's just fucked up

BUT

what if a black dude painted himself white on halloween? would people be losing their shit on the news??

Signing off,
Nebula