ANDY'S BLOGLIST

.......the title's completely misleading. I don't actually have a running bloglist, but if I did I would add the-burning-house.com to that extremely short list: The premis of the blog is simple (and has little to do with Fashion.. double bonus). "If your house was burning, what would you bring with you?" - a concept so easy to understand, yet so interesting you can't resist reading. Thirsty blog readers rejoice, new posts are added daily and offer an unobstructed glimpse into what complete strangers hold near & dear to their heart.. (that's what turns you on right?) ...In a strange twist while I was reading the blog for the first time I actually found myself looking around identifying things around me i'd reach for if the walls around me went up in flames.... Hats off to whoever's behind this genius.. I'm happy with their concept & thrilled with their execution.. looking forward to trolling ...maybe even contributing. Check out The Burning House : here

Andy

Kimmy Kakes

I guess Kim posted a pic on her twitter of her new callendar and it's all over the blogs, somethin like a sneek peak. She put it up and said how she's only gonna keep it up for one night (me me me i need attention pronto) lol
I think the picture is great! but its sooooooooooooooo Vida Guera circa 2006, come onnnnnnnn you don't have to do all that Kim. I wanna see some new shit, something different something good something that will gain trend followers.

Signing off,
this is MY opinion

This is your conscience (.com)

I was having a conversation with my friend earlier about my recent relationship, after sharing a few laughs and stories, somehow Lincoln's blog came up. The name wasn't familiar to me so I decided to check it out.
While spending more than 20 minutes on it, an article that stuck with me was this...

Romance is not an ACT it’s an ART and making love isn’t something you HAVE it’s something you CREATE. When both work together flawlessly, can take even the most reserved of women from a cold, standoffish asexual being to a sensuous freak craving your very touch – and it doesn’t take much.

Please don’t confuse my interpretation of Mind Sex with the lame Dead Prez song with negroes talking about playing chinese checkers on futons and eating garden salads and wearing kufi’s. For me Mind Sex is all about ‘Penetration-Preparation’ or basically everything you do before you put it in. I’ve always been a firm believer that if she is not dripping all over the place just before the sex, then you have not properly ‘pre-heated’ the oven and the turkey ain’t ready to be put in yet.
Most people think of foreplay as an arduous and lengthy act, but it does not have to be either of those. And here’s how..

1st Step) Greet Her PROPERLY

The first thing you need to do as a man is drop the selfishness and silly past fights and just get yourself in the mindset that you don’t matter. Not tonight. Tonight it’s all about HER. You can’t just TRY to do this, you need to FULLY commit to this way of thinking because the most important part of Mind Sex, is the initial greeting – whatever way you typically greet her is NOT good enough. No “Hey,” “What’s Good?” or “What the hell took you so long?”

2nd Step) Be Attentive To The SMALL Things
Women are extremely attentive so they notice the smallest things when it comes to interacting with a man. And it’s not even small, OBVIOUS things like did you open the door for her or did you pull her chair out. It’s more innocuous than that. Though it’s different for every woman, it’s things like: how you introduce her to your boy that you saw at dinner (you introduced her as “My woman” and not “My friend” or just her name) or things like a non-obvious compliment or a brief sensual touch on the arm.

3rd Step) Eye Contact Is Crucial
The eyes are definitely the window to the soul and the intensity of a lustful look is what women are into. It might sound weird to us men, but it actually makes a lot of sense. Women see lack of eye-contact as a lack-of-confidence and if you can’t stare deep into her eyes it’s either because you’re too scared, too shy or too dishonest, but whatever it is, he’s NOT someone she wants to take home and find out IF he can please her. If she playfully asks ‘Why are you looking at me like that?’ then you have her right where you want her.

4th Step) Every Touch Is Calculated And Delivered With Force
Most men don’t know how to deliver the Casual Panty-Moistener hug, but the ones that do know EXACTLY how something as small as a hug can go a long way in creating sexual anticipation. A woman’s body is not meant to be grabbed or groped UNTIL it’s get-it-in time; her body is meant to be EXPLORED. Unlike men, women have many erogenous zones all over their body and it’s all about caressing those parts subtely enough that you don’t look like you are just being an inexperienced, overzealous horny-bastard like one of those kids from American Pie or Superbad, but without enough force that she knows YOU cherish every inch of her body even when it’s fully clothed.

5th Step) Find The Right Pace
This is crucial. Remember that YOU don’t control the pace, and neither does SHE. Her body controls the pace and if you can’t read it, then you will NEVER know when she’s ready. A woman’s body can NOT hide it’s reaction to pleasure, though she can keep a straight face or keep quiet, her body will always give away how turned on she is. The final stage of Mind Sex some may call teasing, but I just call “previewing.” You don’t ravish her neck and collar bone with your tongue, but you give her a strong massage and even know and then just pass your [non-chapped] lips over the back of her neck for a brief moment and feel her tense up waiting for to kiss and neck her, but don’t – just pull away slowly and let her mind imagine how good it will feel when you actually do it.
This isn’t meant to be a how to please your woman manual, just some friendly reminders that bringing out the freak in your girl doesn’t take a stripper pole or Booty Call 56 DVD’s, just some time, attention to detail and willingness to please.

This Is Your Conscience

Check out more of his articles HERE , I will also add his link to the sidebar.

Xo
Enjoy ;)

Thinking about starting a blog?

just stumbled on this great article written by Bob Bassette titled "Top 5 Blogging Misconceptions"- i'll copy and paste it for you .. but in case your looking for the original article click here

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here you go...

Top 5 Blogging Misconceptions

1. If you write it they will come…

No, not really. It’s more like, If you promote it they might come. You could be writing the most fantastic blog on earth but if no one knows about it why bother? It’s almost like the old saying, “If a tree falls in the woods and no one is there to hear it, did it make a sound?” You simply have to get the word out there that you are living and breathing amid the blogosphere. I’m doing that through this guest post. I am not doing this out of the goodness of my heart or because I like Daniel. I am writing this guest post because Daniel has something that I want; a HUGE readership.

2. People will read because of my great writing

Don’t get me wrong, I think that great writing is a prerequisite of a successful blogger but your readers aren’t reading your blog because you write well. There are bookshelves filled with books at any Barnes and Noble or Borders written by great writers. The most important lesson that a blogger has to learn is that you MUST deliver value to your readers. The reason Daily Blog Tips is successful is that Daniel delivers value to the reader and has done this consistently through the years. When you write a blog you must have your audience in mind. That is why it is very important to get to know your readers which can be done through interaction in the comments. Responding directly to the comments of your readers is very powerful. It builds a relationship and trust that can be nurtured with time. You will also begin to understand the profile of your readers which can go a long way to developing posts which are helpful to them. If that reader likes what you have to say, he or she may tell someone else or maybe even link to you in their blog if they have one.

3. Other bloggers will always be willing to help

To be totally honest, I have found that about 90% of fellow bloggers are very helpful. But there are some out there who feel you are the competition or maybe they don’t feel you are worthy of being helped. I could never understand that. If someone asks for my help I would gladly give it to them when it comes to blogging. I will never look at this as a competitive endeavor, but a nurturing one.

4. You will start making money right away

This could be true if you already have a following from either another blog or a NY Times bestseller book that you just wrote. There are two schools of thought on monetizing your blog. Some say to wait until you have a decent readership before you add any Adsense or advertising on your blog. Others say it’s OK to start the blog off with advertising. My take is to wait until you have a following before you monetize your blog. It may just turn people off early on and that is the last thing you want to do. Either way, it will take a while before you have a large following and with that you may be able to make some money through advertising. But, the majority of bloggers don’t make money. So if you started blogging to make money instead of having a real passion for your writing, you may want to reconsider.

5. It’s easy to blog

Actually it requires a lot of work. If you have a full-time job and are blogging on the side, finding the time to write is tough. And, if you don’t put in the time, it will show in your content. I enjoy the process immensely but that still doesn’t mean it’s easy. To build a following you also have to be consistent in your writing. You can’t just post a blog at random intervals. That’s the quickest way to lose any readers that you may have. If your readers like your posts then they expect them to be there on a regular basis. Try to stick with a regular posting interval. If you state your posting interval in your “About” page, then make sure you meet your deadlines.

Blogging can be a tremendously rewarding experience. Being able to communicate with a diverse group of people from anywhere in the world is truly mind-boggling. Understanding some of the misconceptions out there related to blogging can help you get off to the right start. Knowing what to expect ahead of time may save you a lot of wasted time and energy.

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Miss Natosh Monroe! Thank you for being a late night regular reader and we just wanted to take the time to welcome you back to the blog world, we know you gonna have a lot of goodies for us, so you best believe we gonna be checkin up on yo shit! xoxo Neb PS: Miss Natosh will be our first guest blogger with juicy x-rated topics, she sent me a list of things she's gonna be talking about and my eyes were like O_O so let's be on the look out for those. Click HERE to visit her Blog.